In a world filled with material desires, life is inevitably hard and tiring! If you are kind, people may take advantage of you; if you are talented and attractive, you may face envy and resentment. If you compromise, others may push further, infringing upon your boundaries. To coexist peacefully, you must navigate social dynamics skillfully while being prepared for setbacks. If you wish to avoid conflict, you must also be content with less and maintain the strength to protect yourself... Such is life, often beyond our control!

Of course, some sayings hold truth, while others may not! In this world, some push people away, while others attract closeness and comfort. Such a person could be him, me, or you!

First, such a person must have virtue.

Being kind, sincere, principled, and compassionate makes others feel warm and secure around you, naturally drawing them closer.

Second, such a person must be useful.

Realistically, human connections often hinge on mutual "usefulness" or value. This could be an employer-employee relationship, where one provides a platform and compensation, and the other contributes labor and value.

This usefulness could also manifest in pure friendships, bringing joy and support in times of need.

Or it could be the emotional reliance between partners... Without usefulness, no platform, friendship, or relationship will last.

Third, such a person must have substance.

Others should see uniqueness in you, learn from you, admire your qualities, and feel enriched by your presence.

Fourth, such a person must have magnanimity.

Listening to others and offering insightful advice earns respect and admiration. Generosity and open-mindedness make people look up to you.

Fifth, such a person must be tolerant.

Recognizing others' worth, respecting their choices, and forgiving mistakes reflect a broad-minded and inclusive spirit.

Sixth, such a person must be interesting.

Your humor and wit bring joy, making interactions effortless and enjoyable.

Seventh, such a person must be thoughtful.

Act with sincerity, weigh your words, and approach tasks carefully. Avoid half-heartedness or insincerity.

With these traits, how could you not be popular? Of course, no one is perfect. Heaven doesn’t bestow all virtues on one person. Just as tea is best served seven-tenths full and meals eaten seven-tenths full, these "seven qualities" are not unattainable wisdom or superhuman skills but cultivable traits of character.